November 3, 2023

17 Years Blessed With the Joy of His Life–17 Years of Loss

On Friday, November 3, 2006 we lost our 17 year old son, Tommy, to suicide. Friday, November 3, 2023 is the 17th anniversary of his death. This coincidence of day and years is having a profound impact on me. I seek answers and I seek reasons for HOPE. Not easy as I am surrounded by a world in turmoil. But in the area of mental illness and suicide prevention I am HOPEFUL that the tide is turning. Despite the fact that suicide rates remain high, that advances in diagnosing and treating mental illness have not kept pace with breakthroughs in other fields of medicine, that child psychiatrists and psychologists are scarce, and facilities for their residential treatment even scarcer–I am finding rays of HOPE.

Tommy’s legacy lives on today, stronger than ever

17 years of raising awareness and removing the stigmas associated with suicide and mental illness.

17 years of Tommy Fuss Team’s participation in the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention’s Annual Overnight Walks
Cumulatively Speaking:
• 85 Walkers participants
• Over 3,500 Miles Walked
• 22 Crew or Medical Participants
• Over $880,000 dollars raised for the AFSP
• Cities Walked: Boston, New York City, Philadelphia, Washington DC, Chicago and San Francisco.
• Instrumental in Establishing and Participating in the Morris County (New Jersey) Community Walk since 2016
• Participation in 5 Boston Community Walks

17 years of funding the biology and genetic research of psychiatric disease through the Tommy Fuss Fund, paving the way for early detection and improved treatments.

Making an impact at Boston Children’s Hospital, Massachusetts General Hospital and McLean Hospital. Not only is each grant important, but has the potential to secure further grants from the National Institute of Mental Health (NIMH) to further the investigations. These grants also provide the institution with the ability to attract, retain and launch the careers of young researchers so desperately needed in this field. 

Funding suicide prevention research through Harvard University and Franciscan Children’s Hospital

Participating in the Loomis Sayles Fuss Family Mental Health Initiative

Supporting local efforts including the Child and Adolescent Psychiatry Services at Newton Wellesley Hospital and the Samaritans, Boston.

In the NEWS

The National Institute of Mental Health (NIMH) has made suicide prevention a priority. Right here in Boston an NIMH award has launched the Center for Suicide Research and Prevention at Harvard University and Massachusetts General Hospital with the goal of translating innovations in suicide science into clinical care. 

The recent affiliation of Franciscan Children’s Hospital (Boston) and Boston Children’s Hospital has the potential to provide mental and behavioral health services that all the young people of our greater Boston community and beyond deserve.

In Conclusion

Our journey continues. There is much to do but we are making progress. There is reason for HOPE. Mental Health and Psychiatric Illnesses are being talked about and addressed throughout our society. We are removing stigmas. There are dedicated and passionate professionals working in labs and clinics. I have the privilege of knowing many of these extraordinary professionals and I extend to those I know, and to those I have yet to meet, my sincerest appreciation and admiration. Technological advances in genetics and MRIs are but two factors making progress possible. While it takes years to translate this type of research into clinical practices–we are moving in the right direction. 

I am not alone in my message of HOPE. I have asked three professionals I work with to share a message of HOPE. Here is what they have to say:

“Suicide is among the most devastating of all human behaviors, especially when it takes the life of a child. Although suicide and associated mental illnesses have brought great sadness, there is now reason to be hopeful. Recent scientific advances have led to significant improvements in our ability to identify youth at risk and to provide novel forms of treatment that can help prevent suicide and alleviate their suffering. I have never been as hopeful for the mental health of future generations as I am today.”

Matthew K. Nock, Ph.D.
Edgar Pierce Professor of Psychology
Harvard College Professor
Chair, Department of Psychology
Harvard University

“The first step towards curing mental illness is to have faith in the human spirit. The second is the courage and creativity needed for scientific discovery.”

David Glahn, PhD
Chief for Research | Department of Psychiatry and Behavioral Sciences
Director, Tommy Fuss Center for Neuropsychiatric Disease Research
Boston Children’s Hospital
Professor of Psychiatry, Harvard Medical School

“It is undeniable that in the aftermath of the global pandemic, against the backdrop of a challenging societal landscape, we find ourselves in the midst of a behavioral and mental health crisis. Yet, we are in a moment when unsurpassed hope and optimism is well warranted in this domain. Awareness and appreciation for the vital importance of behavioral and mental health has never been higher. The armamentarium of effective, evidence-based treatments for mental illness and addiction has never been greater. The burgeoning array of public-health-informed approaches, including mental health first aid, screening for early detection, attention to prevention, and models of integration with primary care have never had greater momentum. The science for advancing the field through research and technology has never been more powerful. And during the pandemic, we witnessed, as never before, that when lawmakers, regulators, payors, health care systems, providers, and our communities cooperate, we can overcome obstacles and catapult forward. Now is the time to mobilize, invest, and align, redouble our efforts, through care, research, and education, to enable better access, prevention, early intervention, recovery, and cures, to improve and save lives. Our greatest opportunities to enhance and achieve behavioral and mental health are here, now, and just in front of us, if we come together as one community, recognizing that nothing is more essential.”

Scott L. Rauch, M.D.
President, Psychiatrist in Chief and Rose-Marie and Eijk van Otterloo Chair of Psychiatry,
McLean Hospital Chair, Behavioral & Mental Health, Mass General Brigham Professor of Psychiatry, Harvard Medical School

This Dracaena has grown from a very small plant given to me on February 27, 2007 by friends of Tommy’s. As it’s grown it’s been replanted multiple times. I marvel each time I see signs of new growth. It is much more than the center piece of our family room. It symbolizes love, friendship and new life. As I began thinking about this anniversary, I was comforted by the new growth coming from the base of the plant. Tommy is sharing his love and telling me to continue our work…where there is new life, there is HOPE. Thank you B and S for this magnificent gift.